There’s a hidden cost to constantly striving: burnout. Burnout isn’t just feeling tired. It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It sneaks up on those who carry too much — the overachievers, the caregivers, the perfectionists — until one day, even the smallest task feels insurmountable.

Common symptoms of burnout include chronic fatigue, irritability, lack of motivation, trouble sleeping, and a feeling of detachment or cynicism. You may find yourself withdrawing from responsibilities or feeling numb toward things that once brought joy. Physically, burnout can show up as headaches, digestive issues, or even a weakened immune system.

 

How to do less:

Healing from burnout begins with acknowledging it. Denial only deepens the damage.

  • Start by setting boundaries — say no without guilt.
  • Prioritize rest, not as a reward, but as a necessity.
  • Reconnect with things that nourish your spirit: time in nature, creative hobbies, meaningful conversations, or simply silence.
  • It’s also important to reassess your workload. Are your expectations of yourself realistic? Are you carrying things that aren’t truly yours to hold?
  • Seek support from friends, a therapist, or a support group. You weren’t meant to carry everything alone.

 

Burnout is not a personal failure — it’s a warning sign. Your body and mind are asking for a reset.

Listen!    Step back!   Heal !

The world will wait, and you’ll return stronger, with clarity and balance. Doing less doesn’t mean you’re giving up — it means you’re choosing to live.