Stress and anxiety are an inevitable part of the territory of being human. At work, at home and in your social life, you are driven by the pressure to fit in, please and be perfect. Not meeting all these expectations can grind away at self-esteem, generate chronic worry and create anxiety about your present situation and your future capability to thrive and succeed. In the race to keep pace with your life, the demands and unconscious directives to perform can be totally overwhelming, exhausting and can damage your health.
The Effects of Your Stress and Anxiety
Physically, your stress can be the source of low energy, headaches, upset stomach, insomnia, decreased sexual desire, frequent colds and infections, chest pain and rapid heartbeat, as well as aches, pains and tense muscles.
Long term, your body can begin to develop heart and blood pressures problems, weight issues, skin problems, hair loss, gastrointestinal disorders. Prolonged stress can even lead to brain shrinkage. (A 2012 study by Yale University researchers discovered that high stress can diminish brain size and lead to difficulty with self control, depression and heart rate).
Mentally, constant worrying can cause you to be disorganized or forgetful. You might also have trouble focusing, just zone out, exercise poor judgement, or become negative and pessimistic about life.
Emotionally, you might find you are nervous, easily agitated, frustrated and moody. Life can feel like it is falling apart and you may over-control to compensate or become depressed, feel lonely or have a diminished sense of self-worth.
Behaviourally, you may find you eat too much or not enough. Procrastination and other avoidance patterns can develop. You might increase your use of alcohol, drugs or cigarettes. Your anxiety could also show up in nail biting, fidgeting or pacing.
Tips to Manage Your Stress
There is no need to be held hostage by the fears, anxieties and thoughts that have triggered your stress. Here are a few strategies you can adopt right now to help:
Stress and anxiety do not have to hijack your sanity or rob you of your ability to be happy. When you develop ways to cope and learn how to quiet your thoughts, it is possible to live with a peaceful approach to the inescapable challenges we all face every day in big and small ways.
“If you want to conquer the anxiety of life, live in the moment, live in the breath.”
― Amit Ray, Om Chanting and Meditation